Pat and I have been working on and planning some things for the future. In fact we've been individually working on this project since just after he left. The hard part is that until he gets home everything is up in the air. I am a very impatient person, and I love having plans set. I know I'm going to be stressing until he comes home, and we can figure it all out then. There is also a part of me though that feels by working on this project so much we've put ourselves on the back burner. Maybe it's worth it, we'll have to wait and see.